This Saturday we celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility. Often when we talk about transgender visibility as activists and community members, we focus on the corners of our lives that still require illumination; but what we don’t give space to are the times when visibility itself becomes glaring and leaves us uncomfortably exposed.
What happens when people are forced to be visible because their birth assigned sex on legal identity documents does not match their gender identity?
Back in the early days of my transition, I moved to another state. This, as many other transgender people will appreciate, is especially difficult for us.
While I did have my driver’s license corrected to my gender identity in my former state, I had not yet corrected the gender marker on my other identity documents.
Once I arrived at my new home, I proceeded to do all those things one does when they move, including of course, transferring my driver's license. This is where I encountered my first difficulties of having mismatched documents. When the Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV) clerk attempted to process my information, the system couldn’t verify my identity because the gender marker on my driver’s license and the gender maker associated with my social security number didn’t line up.