FAQ About Transgender People and Marriage Law
Unfortunately, marriage itself may not be enough to protect your rights if you are not a biological or adoptive parent—a restriction that applies to cisgender people as well. The truth is that parental rights can be very hard to defend in court once they’re challenged, whether as part of divorce or custody proceedings or because of sheer discrimination.
Lambda Legal strongly recommends that all non-biological parents secure an adoption or court judgment of parentage to protect their parental rights. Also, documenting your intentions for a child through a will and other legal documents and proceedings is especially important when a parent is transgender. Couples should consider writing up a statement of intention as well.
For more information, consult Lambda Legal’s “Transgender Parenting” at lambdalegal.org/publications/toolkits.
No, not even the most restrictive state rules for changing the gender marker on birth certificates can interfere with your right to marry.
Most U.S. states still do require a court order to change the gender on birth certificates. And many still require proof of gender-affirming surgery, despite mainstream medical and legal consensus that such requirements are irrelevant and inappropriate. As of October 2015, Idaho, Kansas, Ohio and Tennessee don’t allow gender markers to be changed on birth certificates under any circumstance. But since the June 2015 Supreme Court marriage ruling, all states must respect your right to marry another person, regardless of gender.
All valid marriages must be fully respected even if a couple moves to a state with anti-transgender laws on the books.
All marriages remain valid if they were valid at the time at which they were entered. And since the June 2015 Supreme Court decision legalizing marriage for same-sex couples, states are no longer allowed to restrict marriage according to gender. Anyone already in a valid marriage must have access to marriage-related federal and state rights and benefits.
Lambda Legal has consistently defended the principle that marriages may not be invalidated retroactively—an idea that remains important amid continued anti- transgender policies and sentiments. In 2007 Lambda Legal won a Florida alimony case known as Roach v. Roach n.k.a. Silverwolf involving a transgender man who transitioned during his marriage. The judge upheld the couple’s alimony agreement based on the determination that the marriage was valid when it was entered.
Most states have incorporated gender-neutral terminology into marriage contracts. For example, Washington and New York marriage contracts have replaced “Bride” and “Groom” with “Spouse A” and “Spouse B.” Georgia uses “Applicant 1” and “Applicant 2.” If your state is still issuing marriage licenses that are not gender-neutral or do not reflect your gender identity, contact Lambda Legal’s Legal Help Desk at 1-866-542-8336 or www.lambdalegal.org/help.
The U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) no longer requires a court order or proof of surgery to affirm transgender status (unlike some states). Instead, a transgender person can show a medical certification from a licensed physician (M.D. or D.O.) certifying appropriate clinical treatment under guidelines issued by the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH). Or, one can use an amended birth certificate, passport, naturalization certificate or in some cases a driver’s license.
There should be nothing preventing you from getting a marriage license now, although your marriage won’t likely be recognized retroactively. Contact Lambda Legal Help Desk for further assistance or if you experience more problems getting married in your state.
A person’s transgender status is deeply personal and private, and it is constitutionally protected. In the U.S., there is no legal duty to disclose to a partner even if you are getting married. It is ultimately up to each transgender person to decide whether to tell your partner that you are transgender. This may not be true in other countries, such as England, where the 2004 Gender Recognition Act requires people to disclose their transgender status or risk having their marriages annulled.
DEFINITION
“LEGAL GENDER”
This expression gets thrown around a lot, but there is no such magical wand to make you “legally” male or female when it comes to gender transition. Laws vary from state to state concerning the requirements for changing gender markers on birth certificates and other identity documents. Laws also vary concerning whether a state will accept such identity documents as conclusive with respect to your gender identity. Finally, context also can make a difference as to whether your gender identity will be respected. For example, a court might recognize your gender identify or the sex designation on your birth certificate as your “legal gender” in one marriage-related context, but then a government agency in the same state might deny you respect in another marriage-related context, despite the change to your gender marker.
IMMIGRANT RIGHTS
- Lambda Legal and other organizations are watching closely to make sure these policies are enforced fully, including during in-person interviews at an office of the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) in which married couples making certain applications are required to participate.
- If you’re headed into one of these interviews, you should know that there will be questions about your relationship, including how you met and details about your married life. But all couples must be treated the same regardless of their gender.
Tips
- Power of attorney
- Health care proxy
- Living will
- HIPAA release
- Guardianship/custody agreement or second-parent adoption (if kids are involved)
FOR MORE INFORMATION: Contact Lambda Legal at 212-809-8585, 120 Wall Street, Suite 1900, New York, NY 10005-3919. If you feel you have experienced discrimination, call our Help Desk toll-free at 866-542-8336 or go to www.lambdalegal.org/help.