“I went to my alma mater to change my gender marker in their system from female to male. After seeing my new ID, they thought my gender was just a mistake in their system. They quickly updated it and I left.
“They chased me down in the parking lot and said they’d made a mistake. They asked me to come back. I provided my ID again, but was told I needed a court order. They kept looking at their records, then back at me, just trying to figure me out. I felt like I was naked.
“The supervisor threatened to invalidate my degree if I didn’t comply with procedures. They even asked what gender my birth certificate showed. I told them this felt like they were asking me to drop my pants! A campus police officer was then called to escort me out of the office.
“I emailed everyone, including the university president. The following day, I got a call that my file was being updated. They were ‘making an exception’ for me.”